One Month

Ethan turned one month on Thursday. :) It's been amazing to think that it's been a month!? Time flies, as I am sure all of you mommies will agree. My little boy is turning into quite the chunker and I love it! :) I love everything about him, but his face (and the expressions he makes) just cracks me up.

Life is going well here... it has its ups and downs but we try to take them as they come. I've been trying to follow Dave's example- he's great about keeping faith that everything will work out. I love my husband so much. :)

Anyway, here is a picture of Ethan looking totally cute right before bathtime. :)

Bumbo

I was bored the other day and thought I would see how Ethan liked his bumbo. He has been working out his neck by doing his little baby push ups so I figured this could be pretty amusing. Plus Ethan really likes being able to sit and watch what is going on in the world. Anyway... Here are some pix of Ethan in his bumbo... isn't he cute?

Borrowed Computer

Well I wish that I could post some pictures right now and have more time to type but I am at Dave's work using his computer. Daddy is off showing off his first born son. :) I can hear Ethan crying down the hallway- funny how I am so in tune with that.

I thought that staying at home all day meant that I would get restless and go stir crazy. Not the case! In fact I have been busier than I have ever been.... I'm just off running all day long. My plans to post lots of pictures of Ethan growing and all of his little cute things has been delayed, but I'll get back on track. I am definitely still taking lots of pictures. :)

Anyway, we're all doing well, if not a little tired.

More Pictures

Okay guys, just another quick update... still no regular internet access- next week things will be a little more stable and I'll be able to write more. I just thought I would add some pictures real quick.

Start of the smile. :)

:)

And then there were three....

Ethan David :)

Sorry for the long delay in getting an update to blogger. We don't have the internet at home so I had to get my tushy in action and get to where there was access. So... you probably want to see pictures. And I won't disappoint. I think Ethan (and Dave) are already starting to dread to sight of my camera. But there are just too many cute moments that I can't pass up. Unfortunately this means that for the most part I am behind the camera so there are only limited pictures of Ethan and I.


Anyway... so the details. It was a long weekend/build up for Dave and I before Ethan's arrival. We went in to the hospital on Saturday night and I thought for sure that Ethan would be making his arrival the following day (our anniversary). Unfortunately we were sent home that night- I was in early labor and there wasn't enough going on to warrant keeping me at the hospital. I was told that I'd probably be back at the hospital in about 24 hours.

Sunday (our anniversary) was a quiet one with me just relaxing. That night, against my will (I thought for sure that we would just be sent home again), Dave dragged me back to the hospital. Turns out I was in labor for real this time. After a long night (filled with contractions that lasted upwards of 8 minutes- AGH!) I finally got an epidural in the morning and spent the day pretty comfortable. Advice for those of you thinking about epidurals- they are so wonderful. :) At about 4 PM I began pushing... and kept pushing for about 4 hours. Dave was with me for every moment, encouraging me and helping the nurses where he could. He was also very good about taking care of me when I was a mess and scared and excited and completely worn out. The two memories that really stand out for me were the moment that I realized I was about to start pushing. It hit me then that I was about to have a baby. The second moment was when they put Ethan on my stomach right after he finally made his way out. Reaching down and realizing that there was a warm, squishy, and wiggly baby right there blew my mind.

Ethan finally arrived at 7.57 PM. He weighed 7 lbs, 9 oz and was 21 inches long. And he is the most beautiful little boy in the world (sorry all you other mommies).

It's been an amazing week since then. :)

Anyway, let me get on to the fun part already- pictures. :)


Mom and Ethan at the hospital the day after.

Proud Daddy. :)

Father/Son moment.

Beginning of the family pictures- 3 generations: Grandma, Mom, Ethan.

Ethan is already getting tired of the camera. :)

Ethan sleeps just like Daddy does. :) Deep in thought already.

Last Pregnancy Update

Okay Folks... this is your LAST pregnancy update. After this they're all going to be BABY updates! Yay! The big news first- the end is in sight! Ethan's official due date is TOMORROW! We'll see if he is going to be a punctual baby or if he's going to make a late arrival. But the really good news is that... even if Ethan makes a late arrival, there's still an end in sight- TUESDAY! At the very latest this little boy is going to meet his mommy and daddy on Tuesday.

So sit patiently by your phones and wait for pictures and phone calls- cause it's going to be happening soon! :)

And on a side note... I know that this is totally impersonal (personal notes are in the mail)... but I wanted to express my gratitude for all of the love and support that Dave and I have received over the past months from all of you guys. There have been so many people that have gone out of their way to make things easier for Dave and I and to give us encouragement and to provide us with lots of baby stuff. Dave and I are so greatly appreciative and blessed to have you all in our lives. Thank you so much. :)

Book Recommendation

Okay so I just saw the movie trailer for "Time Traveler's Wife" and it reminded me how much I really liked that book. Actually, I never really forgot because it's consistently been on my favorite books list, but I hesitate to recommend it to some people because, well, there's lots of sex and some of the people I know would be turned off by it. Anyway...

So I guess I'm saying that you really should look into reading this book because it is just a fantastic story. In fact, I'm probably going to read it again here real quick. And check out the trailer. I don't know if the movie will be bad or good, but I'm excited to go see it anyway. And I'm going to make Dave take me. Hahahaha. :)

Still Around

Just thought I'd let you know, I'm still around- and Ethan still hasn't arrived yet. 5 days until the official due date.

On another note.... Mom finally got into town on Friday afternoon. We promptly went out for some frozen custard (YUM!) before heading home to let Mom unpack and relax. The rest of the weekend was a good one- and a lazy one. I have been meaning to work on some sewing projects and I finally got the energy up to do it. I love it! There have been some baby supplies that I have wanted to make (wet bags, diaper wipe holders, and snack bags) that I finally got some fabric for and made them. :)

It has been so much fun having mom around. :)

Not much to say...

Just thought I'd give a quick update... I'm still here- and Ethan's not. 9 more days (give or take)- or as I like to think of it (optimistically, and probably unrealistically) any day now...

Weekend Fun

Figure it's been a while since you've seen a picture of us. :)

Well it was a good weekend for Dave and I- and very much needed. :) We had Friday off for the holiday so we were extra lazy this weekend. And I loved every minute of it.

Friday we had a family barbecue up at Dave's sister's house. It was good to see everyone again. Although I have noticed that whenever I start calling people now they all immediately assume I'm either a) going to the hospital b) at the hospital or c) calling to tell them Ethan is here. Not yet folks. :) Friday night we watched the fireworks up at the golf course. A few years ago Dave and his friends staked out the most awesome place for watching fireworks and watching the sun set. It's quite the hike, but definitely worth it. Basically, the spot we've got staked out is about 100 feet above and east of the place where all the fireworks are getting launched. So you can imagine how close the fireworks explode. :) It's a lot of fun. Oh yeah- and super bonus fun- there was a lightning storm out over Antelope Island (in Salt Lake). So while waiting for the fireworks to start we got to watch some amazing lightning. Awesome!

The view of Antelope Island and Salt Lake from where we were sitting.

Saturday was another good one for us. I pretty much hung out on the couch reading and being lazy. (Whoo hoo! I'm trying to get as many of those days in while I can). Dave went out and did some skeet shooting. I wish I could have gone, but they don't make full tummy ear plugs (as it is I'm worried about the exposure Ethan has had to concussions and the such). It was Dave's first time shooting his shotgun and he loved it. :) That night we joined the Woodbury's for dinner and to say good-bye to Dave's friend Jason. Jason is back to Med School for another year.

One of my favorite summer time activities is sitting out in the warm night air and just talking with people. Saturday night Dave and I got comfy on the swing on the front porch of the Woodbury's and we watched the neighborhood kids light off fireworks. There was even a string of firecrackers that lasted (no joke) like 10 minutes. Just when we thought it was done, it went off again. I think there must have been like 100,000 of them (not exaggerating). The Woodburys also had a portable firepit so we lit up a fire (I helped!) and some of us roasted marshmallows. It was so much fun. Fun smores recipe: sandwich marshmallows between two chocolate chip cookies. I hear it's pretty tasty. :) Anyway, it was a wonderful evening. :)

Sunday was pretty lazy for Dave and I. Pretty much trying to prepare ourselves for another week of work. I love three day weekends, but it's so hard to leave them behind! And now it's back to work.

Oh yeah, Dave and I saw Transformers 2 as well (on IMAX). I really have nothing to say for or against it. It was a movie. A really long movie. And there were lots of explosions.

11 days until Ethan's tentative arrival.

Oh and to brighten your day- here's a series of pictures that Dave and I took while waiting for fireworks on Friday night. I was trying to capture some images of my ultra huge belly for you guys (pay attention to Dave in the background).

Baby Shower

Diaper Cake!

My in laws are so awesome. They threw me the most wonderful baby shower on Saturday. It was a lot of fun! :) I am always so amazed by how generous and helpful and kind and creative the G's are (yes, they do deserve that many compliments- plus more).

The food spread. Yum.

Everyone was so generous and thoughtful with their gifts- and it was really good to get advice on a variety of things. I wish Dave had been there too- I think he would have had fun. But it was good just to have a girl's afternoon as well.

Baby EXPLOSION!

Did I catch your attention?

Our condo finally looks like a baby is about to move in. Seriously. Our living room (and bedroom, and baby's room, and kitchen for that matter) are covered in baby stuff. I love it. Dave just wanders around with this distant look on his face mumbling stuff about "baby sized gifts" (search Simpsons episodes for this reference). It's become a running joke between us, and well, between Dave and anyone who knows him really well. :)

My coworkers threw me a baby shower last week and then the G's threw me one on Saturday. Dave and I have all the baby stuff we can start with. I think that I can safely say that we are set- at least until Ethan starts growing. Our baby is going to be clothed, fed, and sheltered quite nicely until he is 6 months old. Then we'll have to start adding to our baby stuff collection.

I over exerted myself just a little bit yesterday getting my mom's room ready for her (moving furniture) and getting our room ready to share with Ethan (at least for the first few weeks)- more moving furniture. We have a bassinet set up on my side of the bed so I have easy access to Ethan in the middle of the night (we'll see if Dave can learn to sleep through it). We have a jungle of baby stuff in the living room to navigate through (I'm so glad that I don't have to pass through there on the way to the bathroom). And per my mom- she said she just needed a place to sleep, well Mom- your wish has been granted- you have a room but walking into it is at your own risk. :) Good luck avoiding the baby stuff.

Anyway, I'm pretty excited. I feel like I got a lot done over the weekend (even if my legs are still sore). Ethan is sitting tight, but I am hoping he can hear my subconscious thoughts to get a move on. We have 19 days, but I am hoping it is much less (Mom- get your tushy moving on up here already!).

Friday again

Well we've come to the near end of another Friday. It has been a quiet week here at VOA. Kind of nice- very different. I got a lot done this week so I feel a nice sense of accomplishment over all. I made the mistake of saying earlier how quickly my week had gone by- so my reward has been a VERY slow Friday afternoon.

The highlights from this week:

Getting the bathroom done (finally!). We tested the shower yesterday (had to give it a few days for the grouting/sealer to dry). I love it! I'm so pleased with our shower.

We had a potluck at work on Wednesday. It turned into a surprise baby shower for me. :) That was pretty awesome. My coworkers are so awesome.

Otherwise I've just been pretty lazy. I thought I was tired before, but this past week I've taken tired to a whole new level. I can make it to about 7 PM before I can literally feel the energy drain from my body. It's amazing. I read somewhere that energy requirement for growing a baby is the equivalent to running a marathon every day (then why am I gaining weight?). Anyway, I certainly feel like I've run a marathon every day.

I have some serious cleaning to do this weekend (nesting?). I have to wipe down all the cabinets to remove the dust from our bathroom remodel. Then I have to clean all the floors and do some heavy duty carpet cleaning. Then I have to get my mom's room ready (she's arriving next Wednesday!). I've started to think a lot about freezer meals as well. I've started freezing half of everything I cook so that there will be some ready made meals for when we need them. I've also got a million baby blankets that I need to make (million= 2.5). I also want to try making some reusable snack bags and some wet bags (look at me go!). We'll see how my sewing skills turn out.

Tomorrow the G's are throwing me a baby shower. I am excited just for the opportunity to hang out with them. :) Some good girl time.

Anyway, Ethan is 37 weeks now and is officially "full term." We have three weeks (or 22 days) until his "official" due date, but I'm kind of hoping he comes a little early. I'm not terribly uncomfortable, I'm just really excited to meet this man. I can't believe that we've come so far and are so close now!

Anyway, my big thought of the day (reminder to myself?) is: Matthew 6:34 "Take therefore no thought for the morrow: for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself. Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof." Basically, I'm trying to remind myself not to get ahead of myself. Things are going to work out just fine.

FINISHED!!!!

Well, it took a few days longer than we expected, but our bathroom is DONE! We went over budget, over schedule, and I almost had a mental breakdown about halfway through, but we made it. And honestly? I LOVE IT! Our bathroom looks so much better now! :) Most of the compliments have to go to Dave though- he's the one that made the important decisions like which tile to use and the new bathroom fixtures. Basically, I just sat back and watched. I really like the colors that Dave picked out. :)

Anyway, it was so wonderful to get our house (and bathroom) back yesterday. It was nice to come home to condo without tools and tiling stuff everywhere. Now we can start cleaning up the mess. If you are looking for a handyman, I totally recommend Sam.

Here are the before pictures (WARNING: this is embarassing! and sad). Frankly, it's amazing what you can get used to when you don't think about it.

Looking in from the doorway

Water damage along wall next to tub

Mid Remodel- the beginning of the new tiling

Tiling complete- just need grouting, fixtures, and a toilet.

The design on the floor (luckily our handyman is creative).

The finished product!

Complete with new fixtures!

I hate Mondays

I hate Mondays. Seriously. I just tried to post this blog entry a moment ago and even blogger hated me and came up with an error message making me come back and re-write this entry about how much I am having a bad day. Blah.

Bathroom Remodeling

Well we've already broken our budget on the bathroom remodel. It didn't help that Dave and I only like the tile that cost about twice as much as we had budgeted for. In our defense, we were thinking, small space to tile equals fewer tiles equals we can spend more per tile (or square foot). Somewhere our math got messed up. So much for economics. :) Anyway, we are beginning DAY 2 of the big remodel. Dave and I were excited/apprehensive about coming home last night to see that state of our condo and bathroom. Yup. It was dusty and there's a toilet sitting in the baby's room. It was interesting to see the bathroom all torn up and in the first stages of being put back together. Dave and I agreed that we definitely picked the right tile though so that helps.

Anyway, remodeling a bathroom is much more involved/intensive than I had previously expected. I don't know, I kind of thought it would be more like Step 1) pick out tile I like Step 2) Pay for labor/supplies Step 3) Watch it all come together. Turns out there are a million little things that needed my approval and or attention. But we seem to be moving along just fine now.

I have been trying to decide if I want to post the Pre-remodel bathroom and Mid-remodel bathroom pictures or if I just want to wait and show them all at once. Hmmm. We'll see.

Tuesday

I'm feeling kind of sassy this afternoon, which is a change from my usual "tired." The sun is finally back, and I think that it is more or less here to stay (for the summer). Over all I am feeling rather productive today- I am getting a lot of little things done so I feel pretty awesome. Dave and I have actually been up to things lately so I have stuff to write about!

Saturday I finally went out with my friend April and played Bunco. If you guys get invited to a Bunco night, I highly recommend going. I had so much fun! :) I ended up winning for the most number of buncos and for being on the winning team, but I'd play even if I hadn't won anything. It was nice to get out of the house for a while and to hang out with April.

Sunday I received my patriarchal blessing. That was an amazing experience and will be pretty much the only thing I have to say about that.

Yesterday Dave stayed home sick and I ended up going home early. It is getting harder and harder for me to make it through the day (yeah, yeah, yeah, I don't want to hear about "when you're pregnant and have kids at home..." I am trying to enjoy this first pregnancy because I know during the next one I won't be able to take it as easy). Anyway, yesterday was just and uncomfortable day in general- and it was Monday to boot. I got to work to find out the office had had a minor flood (I didn't want to guess the origin of the water- gross!) and it just seemed nothing could go smoothly. And the bonus was that I just didn't feel good. So I gave up and headed home early. I am wondering if that is going to happen more and more often. I swear that Ethan grows in 1/2 pound increments. I don't think there's any middle ground for him- he just expands all at once. Not comfortable.

Anyway- last night Dave and I went over to the Woodbury's for a barbecue and to hang out. I really enjoyed myself. We even brought Pookie with us to meet their new puppy Fergie. Fergie was a little bit too hyper for Pookie (she usually ends up getting stepped on) but I think over time they'll get used to each other. We pretty much spent the evening on the back deck eating and watching the sun set- it was a wonderful time. :)

And now for the BIG NEWS! Dave and I are re-doing our bathroom! We have been talking it over for a while, and one of our friends (actually one of the Woodbury's) referred us to a guy that has been doing some work for them. Anyway, so we got a deal right in line with our budget and he's going to tile our shower and our bathroom floor. I am totally taking "before" and "after" pictures. Dave and I are so excited. We decided that it was important to get the bathroom done before Ethan arrives and it seems like things are working out for us. :) Unfortunately we are going to be sans-toilet for 3 days (not good for a pregnant lady) so we're getting a hotel room for two of the nights. Anyway, Dave and I are really excited. It's the beginning of many house projects that we have been wanting to do. :)

I think that's pretty much all the news from around here. Only a little over a month until Ethan arrives. I can't wait.

Pookie makes me smile

So I'll post more in a bit, but I wanted to post this picture. Pookie never fails to make me smile so I'd thought I'd share this....

Pookie enjoying the sun.

The Mid-Afternoon Slump

Well, it's mid afternoon. That means nap time for me. Unfortunately I am at work right now, so napping is out. Instead I have to try to keep myself awake and keep plodding along. Also unfortunately I have officially blown my ability to think straight. One of the projects I have been working on has short circuited my brain... so I'm pretty much good for nothing right now. But at least I am trying. :)

Well folks, we have 38 days until Ethan's tentative arrival. He is full term as of the 37th week (I've heard 36 weeks is full term as well, but I'll go with 37). If Ethan were to arrive right as he became full term, he could be here as soon as June 26. Crazy to think about huh? Maybe this would be a good time to start a betting pool?

Anyway, things are quiet here. More rain and thunderstorms. So far we've had plenty of both (I'm not complaining- actually I am enjoying it very much).

It was a good test run...

Saturday morning I woke up at about 4 AM with some contractions. After laying in bed awake for a little bit I realized that I was having good sized contractions about every 5 minutes. So I woke up Dave and told him that we needed to head in to the hospital.

So it was our first trip to the hospital and it was a good trial run. We headed up to Labor and Delivery and they set us up in a room and attached a contraction monitor and fetal heartbeat monitor to me. It was interesting to watch the monitors- especially as a contraction was coming on.

Anyway, all is well now. We went home about 7 AM after a shot to stop the contractions and with directions to get lots of rest over the weekend. So it was a pretty exciting morning!